CONTENTS
1. Come to Jesus Daily devotional- Monday – Put to death…the world’s approach to sex
- Tuesday – Put to death…making false gods
- Wednesday – Your old life is dead and buried
- Thursday – Put to death…things that break relationships
- Friday – Don’t live a lie
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1. COME TO JESUS DAILY DEVOTIONAL
One of our goals as a church is to spend at least 20 minutes every day in prayer and worship out of the bible. I hope you find this devotional helpful toward that end.
MONDAY – PUT TO DEATH…THE WORLD’S APPROACH TO SEX
Colossians 3:5 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed…
You’re sitting at home and you wonder if you imagined it…did I see something in the corner of my eye? Then, pandemonium breaks out with people screaming, “A mouse, there, it’s under the…” Now you have to work out how you will kill it or get rid of it! This is like our Christian lives; Jesus has forgiven and renewed us but we are still subject to temptations that we must learn to recognise and put to death – such things don’t belong in our new home!
Why are we to put things to death?
Last week we saw that we are ‘raised with Christ’ (3:1) Our old self is dead and we are now a ‘new creation’. However, the exhortations in this letter are proof that we are still prone to temptation and sin. This is because we still have what Paul here calls ‘your earthly nature’ (v.5) and ‘old self’ (v.9). Often this is termed the ‘flesh’ (sarx). This is what remains in us that is rebellious to God as Paul writes,
‘For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other.’ (Galatians 5:17)
We must learn to walk according to our new nature and keep off what belongs to the old.
What are we to put to death?
Today we will look at five sinful approaches to sexual relationships that we are to put to death.
Sexual immorality – ‘Fornication’ which is sex outside of Christian marriage.
Impurity – To pollute your new life with sexual sin in act or thought.
Lust – To allow yourself to become inflamed by sinful sexual desire.
Evil desires – To be eager for what is against God’s will.
Greed (Covetousness) – To be greedy for what you don’t have, sexual sin in this case. This is the motive behind all of these sins listed.
Response
Just as at Colossae, our culture is saturated with sexual immorality. It’s in many songs, films, shows, advertisements, philosophies of life. The world without Jesus seeks to make sexual sin attractive, and if we allow ourselves to believe the message, we will develop greed in this area.
Do you see that it’s the inner ‘greed’ that leads to external ‘sexual immorality.’ We feed the fire of illicit desire through what we think about and what we allow to entertain us. To break the power of sexual covetousness we need to ‘set our minds on things above (3:2) This is to seek to know Jesus and His will.
Everyone has been involved in sexual sin in some way. We all need to ‘put it to death’! What steps do you need to take? Talking to a friend or a leader is a good start.
TUESDAY – PUT TO DEATH…MAKING FALSE GODS
Colossians 3:5-6 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming.
In some countries and cultures, it’s easy to see their worship of idols in the form of statues or images. However, in Christian or secular culture, idols still exist, but we must learn to expose them.
What is an idol?
An idol is anything that one values or trusts which is not the true God. Paul labels these sinful desires and approaches to sex as ‘idolatry’. They were acting, or being tempted to act, in ways that valued sinful sex above what Jesus wanted for them. What was said to the Romans could be said of them,
‘They exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like a mortal human being and birds and animals and reptiles.’ (Rom. 1:23)
They were being tempted to worship ‘a mortal human being’ through sexual pleasure and raise it above the lordship of Jesus in their lives.
God’s wrath against idol worship
The first two of the Ten Commandments teaches us,
“You shall have no other gods before me.
“You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God…” (Exodus 20:3-4)
Nearly all of Israel’s troubles in the Old Testament were caused by idolatry - spiritual adultery; God would bring His ‘wrath’ (judgment) on them because of it.
Likewise, we need to be inspired by the fear of God. God’s wrath is coming on everyone outside of the forgiveness of Jesus for sins such as these. The true Christian will never face judgement and hell, but we displease God and will be disciplined the Father when one enjoys what He hates!
Response
We are all prone to making idols - trusting and valuing other things above Christ. What are the false gods in your life? Is your approach to sex and relationships under Jesus’ Lordship? The devil and our flesh seek to lie to us about God: “He doesn’t mind…He’s changed His mind…His way is not good…” Same Storms wrote,
'We sin because we enjoy the pleasure it brings. We sin because it feels good. We sin because it brings a thrill to our bodies, fleeting satisfaction to our souls and excitement to the banality and boredom of our everyday lives. We sin because we believe the lie that the pleasure it brings, though passing, is more satisfying than the pleasure obedience brings. Thus the power of temptation is the false promise that sin will make me happier than God can. As John Piper has said, “Sin is what you do when your heart is not satisfied with God ”The fight against sin is, therefore, the fight to stay satisfied with God.’
It’s time to smash the idols and turn to God who gives true life and satisfaction.
WEDNESDAY – YOUR OLD LIFE IS DEAD AND BURIED
Colossians 3:7 You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived.
Christians are always presented as those who have left their old life behind them. Not by virtue of ‘turning over a new leaf’ but by our union with Jesus in His death and resurrection - the past has gone! It is never taught that one can be a Christian whilst remaining in a life of sin. For example, Paul writes,
‘Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.’ (1 Cor. 6:9-11)
The consistent message of the bible is that a Christian is one who seeks to live a godly life because he has died to the old life and has been made alive in Christ, as we saw in the last chapter,
‘In him you were also circumcised with a circumcision not performed by human hands. Your whole self ruled by the flesh was put off when you were circumcised by Christ, having been buried with him in baptism, in which you were also raised with him through your faith in the working of God, who raised him from the dead.’ (Colossians 2:11-12)
Response
Paul says of you, ‘You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived.’ The condemnation and power of sin have been broken in your life, however, don’t put on the old rags, let’s live in our new identity.
THURSDAY – PUT TO DEATH…THINGS THAT BREAK RELATIONSHIPS
Colossians 3:8 But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips.
If we have died and been raised to life in Jesus, this will affect every aspect of our lives. In verse 5 we saw how our relationship with sex has been revolutionised, now we will see how our relationships more generally are affected. Paul tells us to rid ourselves of such things as these:
Anger – This is anger that’s ongoing. It’s to hold on to the wrongs that we feel have been done to us.
Rage – This is the outburst of rage. It’s to allow our actions to be controlled by our passions.
Malice – To have an ongoing hatred or grudge against a particular person. It’s to want that person to suffer in some way, or certainly not to want blessing for them.
Slander – This comes from the word ‘blasphemy’. It means to be slow to reveal God’s ways, but quick to speak of evil in our relationships. It’s to poorly represent Jesus in our speech.
Filthy language from your lips – This is the content of our speaking. No one would offer a glass of water mixed with one drop of sewage to a friend, so why would be offer speech that is not completely pure?
Response
Let’s learn to love our brothers and sisters, and how we harness our words is vital for this. Take some time to meditate and pray from the following texts,
‘Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.’ (1 Corinthians 13:4-8)
‘Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.’ (Ephesians 4:29)
FRIDAY – DON’T LIVE A LIE
Colossians 3:9 Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices
It’s become popular to wear T-shirts with various statements on them, 'No fear’, ‘sometimes I wake up grumpy, at other times I leave her to sleep’, ‘just do it’ etc. By what we wear, or don’t wear, we are trying to communicate the type of person that we want to be, and the person we want others to think that we are. However, an image is often a lie - it’s a cover-up for our true identity that we are trying to hide.
Christians don’t need a T-shirt, a tattoo, a flag… we have a new identity in Christ. This is bound up in what Paul means by ‘do not lie to each other’; this is more than avoiding saying false things. It’s more like, Do not live a lie! Do not live the old life, which you have ‘taken off, and which is false to God and your new identity.
You have taken off the old and put on the new
For you, to seek to be like Christ and obey His revealed will in scripture is not to ‘fake it’, or as Paul puts it, it’s not living a ‘lie’. We hear all sorts of rubbish about being ‘true to myself’ – usually as a justification for all sorts of sin! Whatever else may be going on in your head and heart, to submit to Jesus is your authentic self. It’s your new wardrobe!
Response
Are we being authentic, living according to our new identity in Christ? Have we thrown into the bin, the lifestyle that we used to ‘wear’? If you are a Christian you have ‘taken off your old self with its practices’. Are you tempted to dress in the old rags of ‘sexual immorality’ (3:5)? Or to dress again in the stained T-shirt of ‘anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips’ (3:8)? Let’s live, dressed in the new life that has been given to us in Christ.
2. COMMUNITY GROUP/FAMILY STUDY
DON’T DRESS IN THE OLD RAGS!
Opener – What clothing have you worn in the past that you would no longer wear and why?
Read Colossians 3:5-9
Introduction
Last week in 3:1-4 we saw how we have been raised to new life in Christ. Today we begin to see how new life will always result in a new life, because we have ‘taken off’ (like old clothing) ‘the old self’.
Discuss together
- We are to ‘put to death whatever belongs to our earthly nature’. Although we’re ‘raised with Christ’ we still struggle with sin. Share good advice you’ve received on how to put sin ‘to death’?
- Paul teaches on sexual sin. We’re urged to put to death, ‘sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed’. As we saw in Monday’s devotional, Greed (Covetousness) is greed for sexual sin – this is the motive behind all of these sins. How does what we give our mind to inflame or reduce ‘greed’ for sexual sin?
- Paul also confronts sinful attributes in relationships more generally. He tells them to ‘rid yourselves of… anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips.’ What does each of these mean (See Thursday’s devotional) and how do they destroy church community?
- Finally, Paul exhorts us, ‘Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices’. As we saw on Friday, this means that we are not to live a lie - we are to live according to the new life we have because we have ‘taken off the old self’! How does knowing that we are ‘raised with Christ’ that the ‘old is gone’ help us to avoid sin?